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The Catholic Church teaches what she received from the Lord
through the Apostles, that Mary the mother of Jesus was a virgin
before and after giving birth to Jesus. Furthermore, that Mary was
``full of grace'' from the moment of her conception and that every
grace received by Christians passes somehow through her hands.
In the same way as the woman who bore you is called your
mother and not the mother of your body only, Mary is the mother of the
whole person of Jesus Christ, who is God (cf. Colossians 2:9). The
Church proclaimed this truth in the Council of Ephesus in 431 A.D.:
Therefore, because the holy virgin bore in the flesh God who was
united hypostatically with the flesh, for that reason we call
her mother of God, not as though the nature of the Word had the
beginning of its existence from the flesh (for "the Word was in the
beginning and the Word was God and the Word was with God", and he made
the ages and is coeternal with the Father and craftsman of all
things), but because, as we have said, he united to himself
hypostatically the human and underwent a birth according to the flesh
from her womb.
--Third letter of Cyril to Nestorius
Similarly, the body of believers, the Church, are Christ's
body (cf. 1 Corinthians 12:27-31; Ephesians 4:1-6, 15-16; Colossians
1:18; etc.) and since Mary is the mother of Christ, she is also the
mother of all us believers. And, as if these facts would not be
enough, Jesus himself gave us Mary as our
mother as he hung dying on the cross (cf. John 19).
In addition the tense in Greek indicates ``from the
beginning,'' implying that, that Mary was full of grace from her
conception by a special act of God (cf. the passage from Bishop Sheen,
below).
In verse 34, Mary inquires of the angel how she is to
conceive, not because she does not believe (cf. verse 45, below), but
because she wants to be able to cooperate fully with the plan of God.
Jewish law of the time allowed marital relations between a bethrothed
couple. Mary's question therefore seems out of place: clearly she
could conceive by Joseph even then, so lacking a husband was not the
issue. Therefore a better translation is, ``because I do not know
man.'' The best explanation for her question is that she already knew
that she was not to have relations with any man, that is, she was to
be perpetually a virgin because she was set aside specially by God.
This question of Mary's reveals her humility and her keen
desire to follow God's will. The angel has just told her that she is
to be the mother of the Messiah-- the dream of every Jewish girl.
Instead of jumping at the opportunity and possible abandoning her
special, previous calling from God, she tries to discover how the two
are compatible.
Mary's humble acceptance of the plan of God (verse 38) is a
model for all Christians.
Now, if you who are an imperfect being and who have not the
most delicate conception of all that is fine in life would have wished
for the loveliest of mothers, do you think that our Blessed Lord, who
not only pre-existed His own mother, but who had an infinite power to
make her just what He chose, would, in virtue of all the infinite
delicacy of His spirit make her any less pure and loving and beautiful
than you would have made your own mother? If you who hate
selfishness, would have made her selfless, and you who hate ugliness,
would have made her beautiful, do you not think that the Son of God
who hates sin would have made His own mother sinless, and He who hates
moral ugliness, would have made her immaculately beautiful?
Note that the Holy Spirit,speaking through Elizabeth, proclaims
Mary blessed (v. 42). Mary prophesies that all generations will indeed
call her blessed since God has done great things for her (v. 48): she
humbly acknowledges the truth of the appellation ``blessed'' and that
God is the source of her gifts.
Mary's presence at the beginning (John 2, above) and at the
end of Jesus' ministry (as well as at Pentecost, cf. Acts 1:14)
symbollically represents the importance of her presence throughout his
life.
In the particular case we have here, we should bear in mind
that Jesus had different kinds of relatives, in two groups--some on
his mother's side, others on St. Joseph's. Mt 13:55-56 mentions, as
living in Nazareth, James, Joseph, Simon and Judas (``his brethren'')
and elsewhere there is reference to Jesus' ``sisters'' (cf. Mk 6:3).
But in Mt 27:56 we are told that the James and Joseph were sons of a
Mary distinct from the Blessed Virgin, and that Simon and Judas were
not brothers of James and Joseph, but seemingly children of a brother
of St. Joseph.
Jesus, on the other hand, was known to everyone as ``the son
of Mary'' (Mk 6:3) or ``the carpenter's son'' (Mt 13:55).
"Now listen and see if the words of Scripture do not agree with what
I have said. The Lord was passing by and the crowds were following
him. His miracles gave proof of divine power, nd a woman cried out:
Happy is the womb that bore you, blessed is that womb! But the
Lord, not wishing people to seek happiness in a purely physical
relationship, replied: More blessed are those who hear the word of
God and keep it. Mary heard God's word and kept it, and so she is
blessed. She kept God's truth in her mind, a nobler thing than
carrying his body in her womb. The truth and the body were both
Christ: he was kept in Mary's mind insofar as he is truth, he was
carried in her womb insofar as he is man; but what is kept in the mind
is of a higher order than what is carried in the womb.
"The Virgin Mary is both holy and blessed, and yet the Church
is greater than she. Mary is a part of the Church, a member of the
Church, a holy, an eminent--the most eminent--member, but still only a
member of the entire body. The body undoubtedly is greater than she,
one of its members. The body has the Lord for its head, and head and
body together make up the whole Christ. In other words, our head is
divine--our head is God.
"Now, beloved, give me you whole attention, for you also are
members of Christ; you also are the body of Christ. Consider how you
yourselves can be among those of whom the Lord said: Here are my
mother and my brothers. Do you wonder how you can be the mother of
Christ? He himself said: Whoever hears and fulfills the will of my
Father in heaven is my brother and my sister and my mother. As for
our being the brothers and sisters of Christ, we can understand this
because although there is only one inheritance and Christ is the only
Son, his mercy would not allow him to remain alone. It was his wish
that we too should be heirs of the Father, and co-heirs with himself.
"Now having said that all of you are brothers of Christ, shall
I not dare to call you his mother? Much less would I dare to deny his
words. Tell me how Mary became the mother of Christ, if it was not by
giving birth to the members of Christ? You, to whom I am speaking,
are the members of Christ. Now you in your turn must draw to the font
of baptism as many as you possibly can. You became sons when you were
born there yourselves, and now by bringing others to birth in the same
way, you have it in your power to become the mothers of Christ.
Mother of God, Mother of All Christians
Full of Grace and Perpetual Virgin
The RSV has ``O favored one'' in place of the Catholic
edition's ``full of grace'' (gratia plena), which is the
traditional interpretation of the Greek, as passed down by St. Jerome
in the Vulgate. Even setting aside St. Jerome's outstanding personal
sanctity, the fact that he performed the translation only a couple
hundred years after the writing of the Gospel, when knowledge of the
dialect of its composition was still in recent memory, should lend
authority to this translation.
Just suppose that you could have pre-existed your own mother,
in much the same way that an artist pre-exists his painting.
Furthermore, suppose that you had an infinite power to make your
mother anything that you pleased, just as a great artist like Raphael
has the power of realizing his artistic ideals. Suppose you had this
double power, what kind of mother would you have made for yourself?
Would you have made her of such a type that would make you blush
because of her unwomanly and unmotherlike actions? Would you have in
any way stained and soiled her with the selfishness that would make
her unattractive not only to you, but to your fellow-man? Would you
have made her exteriorly and interiorly of such a character as to make
you ashamed of her, or would you have made her, so far as human beauty
goes, the most beautiful woman in the world; and so far as beauty of
the soul goes, one who would radiate every virtue, every manner of
kindness and charity and loveliness; one who by the purity of her life
and her mind and her heart would be an inspiration not only to you,
but even to your fellow-men, so that all would look up to her as the
very incarnation of what is best in motherhood?
Faithful Intercessor
Mary's full belief of the angels words and selfless charity
lead to make the arduous journey across the hills of Palestine to help
her aged and pregnant cousin Elizabeth.
This passage illustrates our Lady's powerful intercession with her
son: at her word he performs a miracle when his ``hour had not yet
come.'' Notice that the miracle fulfilled no more dire a need than
saving a young couple from embarrassment on their wedding day. As a
mother, Mary is attentive to these small details of our lives, and
asks Jesus to help us.
Mother of All Christians
In this scene Jesus gives to ``the disciple whom he loved''
the care of his mother. That disciple is St. John, but symbolically
also every Christian (cf. the method of exegesis employed in
Hebrews 7, especially verse 3: details not mentioned in
scriptures are taken to lack existence). Those who maintain that Mary
had other children forget that such a fact would make Jesus' giving of
his mother to the care of St. John meaningless. It is silly to
maintain both that Jesus' action here had no other significance than
that he merely wanted someone to look after his mother and
that Mary had other children.
Further Defense of Mary's Perpetual Virginity
Matthew 12:46-50 (English-RSV)
About this passage, the Navarre Bible reminds us:
``Brethren'': ancient Hebrew, Aramaic and other languages had
no special words for different degrees of relationship, such as are
found in more modern languages. In general, all those belonging to
the same family, clan and even tribe were ``brethren''.
Luke 11:27-28 (English-RSV)
"Stretching out his hand over his disples, the Lord Chist
declared: Here are my mother and my brothers, anyone who does the
will of my Father who sent me is my brother and my sister and my
mother. I would urge you to ponder these words. Did the Virgin
Mary, who believed by faith and conceived by faith, who was the chosen
one from whom our Savior was born among men, who was created by Christ
before Christ was created in her--did she not do the will of the
Father? Indeed the blessed Mary certainly did the Father's will, and
so it was for her a greater thing to have been Christ's disciple than
to have been his mother, and she was more blessed in her discipleship
than in her motherhood. Hers was the happiness of first bearing in
her womb him whom she would obey as her master.
-St. Augustine, Sermo 25, 7-8: PL 46, 937-938
That the Lord then was manifestly coming to His own things, and was sustaining them by means of that creation which is supported by Himself, and was making a recapitulation of that disobedience which had occurred in connection with a tree, through the obedience which was [exhibited by Himself when He hung] upon a tree, [the effects] also of that deception being done aways with, by which that virgin Eve, who was already espoused to a man, was unhappily misled,--was happily announced, through means of the truth [spoken] by the angel to the Virgin Mary, who was [also espoused] to a man. For just as the former was led astray by the word of an angel, so that she fled from God when she had transgressed His word; so did the latter, by an angelic communication receive the glad tidings that she should sustain (portaret) God, being obedient to His word. And if the former did disobey God, yet the latter was persuaded to be obedient to God, in order that the Virgin Mary might become patroness (advocata) of the virgin Eve. And thus, as the human race fell into bondage to death by means of a virgin, so is it rescued by a virgin; virginal disobedience having been balanced in the opposite scale by virginal obedience. For in the same way the sin of the first created man (protoplasti) receives amendment by the correction of the First-begotten, and the coming of the serpent is conquered by the harmlessness of the dove, those bonds being unloosed by which we had been fast bound to death. (ch. 19, 1)In accordance with this design, Mary the Virgin is found obedient, saying, "Behold the handmaid of the Lord; be it unto me according to thy word."(2) But Eve was disobedient; for she did not obey when as yet she was a virgin. And even as she, having indeed a husband, Adam, but being nevertheless as yet a virgin (for in Paradise "they were both naked, and were not ashamed,"(3) inasmuch as they, having been created a short time previously, had no understanding of the procreation of children: for it was necessary that they should first come to adult age,(4) and then multiply from that time onward), having become disobedient, was made the cause of death, both to herself and to the entire human race; so also did Mary, having a man betrothed [to her], and being nevertheless a virgin, by yielding obedience, become the cause of salvation, both to herself and the whole human race. And on this account does the law term a woman betrothed to a man, the wife of him who had betrothed her, although she was as yet a virgin; thus indicating the back-reference from Mary to Eve, because what is joined together could not otherwise be put asunder than by inversion of the process by which these bonds of union had arisen; s so that the former ties be cancelled by the latter, that the latter may set the former again at liberty. And it has, in fact, happened that the first compact looses from the second tie, but that the second tie takes the position of the first which has been cancelled.(6) For this reason did the Lord declare that the first should in truth be last, and the last first.(7) And the prophet, too, indicates the same, saying, "instead of fathers, children have been born unto thee."(8) For the Lord, having been born "the First-begotten of the dead,"(9) and receiving into His bosom the ancient fathers, has regenerated them into the life of God, He having been made Himself the beginning of those that live, as Adam became the beginning of those who die.(10) Wherefore also Luke, commencing the genealogy with the Lord, carried it back to Adam, indicating that it was He who regenerated them into the Gospel of life, and not they Him. And thus also it was that the knot of Eve's disobedience was loosed by the obedience of Mary. For what the virgin Eve had bound fast through unbelief, this did the virgin Mary set free through faith. (ch. 22, 4)

This image, among the most ancient in Christian art, expresses a theme that lies at the heart of the Christian faith: the mystery of the incarnation of the Son of God born of the Virgin Mary.
At the left, the figure of a man pointing to a star, located above the Virgin with the child: a prophet, probably Balaam, who anniunced that "a star shall come forth out of Jacob, and a sceptre shall rise out of Israel" (Num 24:17).
Mary is the mother of Jesus, who is God. Jesus made her sinless from her first moment of existence in her mother's womb because of the singular role she was to play in our salvation. No other human person forms as vital and direct a link in the coming of Christ. If we allow it, her example and prayers will safeguard our pilgrim way through this valley of tears until we reach the blessed vision of her son, Jesus.
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