At
first glance, it appears that Elyah Docheff has been coming to
the Western Wall for a long time. His attire-white shirt, black
jacket, black slacks, black shoes, and black felt yarmulke-make
him look right at home among the many Jews in traditional dress
who mill about.
"I consider myself
Hasidic," he says standing next to the Kotel, the area in front
of the wall where hasidic Jews and members of other ultra-orthodox
sects are gathering for their Saturday morning prayers.
After his prayers are
finished, he will walk to Mea She'arim, the ultra-orthodox section
of Jerusalem, for lunch with a Hasidic family. He looks the part.
Along with his garb, he wears peyis, curls of hair near the temples
that he has wrapped around his ears, and a scissor-trimmed beard.
Just one year ago,
Docheff, 24, lived in Washington, D.C., where he worked as an
aerospace consultant. One year before that, he says he had little
interest in his Jewish roots, but after an Orthodox woman turned
him down for a date because he didn't observe Jewish law, he decided
to attend classes. The woman is long gone, but his desire to learn
about Judaism has continued to deepen.
After a year of study
in Washington, he decided he needed to go to the source and moved
to Jerusalem. He now lives and learns at Aish Ha Torah yeshiva,
an organization with a prime piece of real estate just steps from
the Western Wall. From his room at the yeshiva, Docheff can peer
out at the wall, a remnant of the platform on which the second
Jewish temple sat until it was sacked by Roman troops in A.D.
70 and one of the most revered sites in Judaism. Or he can look
up onto the platform where the golden roof of the Dome of the
Rock, the third holiest site in Islam, glitters under both sun
and moonlight.
Docheff's eyes narrow
slightly behind his small glasses as he talks about his family's
reaction to his changes. He recently went to New Jersey for six
weeks to stay with his parents, and he says that the strains were
unbearable by the end of the trip. His appearance was a shock,
and his insistence on following certain parts of Orthodox Jewish
law, particularly the prohibition on touching between men and
women, were incomprehensible to his parents. They couldn't understand
why he suddenly refused to hug his female cousins. His mother
was initially happy to accommodate his desire for kosher food,
he says, even buying a new set of plates for him to eat from,
but eventually grew tired.
"After five weeks,
my mom was frustrated thinking I was looking over her shoulder
while she cooked."
He makes the short
walk outside of the yeshiva, past the tourists snapping pictures
of the holy sites, and through a security checkpoint to get to
the wall. He is looking for a group of Ashkenazim, Jews of Eastern
European extraction, whom he can join to say the Kaddish, the
mourner's prayer, for his recently deceased grandfather. He walks
through the tunnel just north of the Kotel plaza straining his
ears for a familiar style of prayer, but finds only the unfamiliar
sounds of Sephardim, Jews with roots in the Mediterranean.
Eventually finding
a group he is comfortable with, Docheff, who changed his name
from Jason to the Hebrew Elyah, stands on the fringes of the minyan,
a group of 10 men that constitutes a quorum for prayer. He moves
his body less confidently than the others, who bow feverishly
and throw their heads back at various points in the prayer. While
he looks the part, he is clearly a neophyte when it comes to prayer,
keeping his nose in the prayer book to follow along.
Docheff knows that
he is living in a tense place, especially since the start last
fall of the second Intifada, the name many give to the Palestinian
uprising. He says he was praying at the wall last October when
Palestinians began raining rocks on the Kotel from the platform
above.
"These weren't little
pebbles," he says, "these were big stones. We all just covered
our heads and ran into the tunnel."
Even having seen the
danger firsthand, Docheff remains sanguine about the current state
of affairs in Israel. He says that if anything, the conflict has
strengthened his resolve to remain in Jerusalem and that Aish
HaTorah. Other yeshivas catering to non-Israelis say that they
have seen a surge in enrolment since the violence started.
"You go into all the
yeshivas now and the places are just buzzing," he says, rapidly
jackknifing his body to demonstrate the frenetic energy of prayer
the conflict has inspired in the religious schools.
"Thanks, Intifada,
for that."
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