Ghazal 66, Verse 9

{66,9}

guzrii nah bah har ;haal yih muddat ;xvush-o-naa-;xvush
karnaa thaa javaa;N-marg guzaaraa ko))ii din aur

1) didn't this time-interval pass in any case, happily and unhappily?
2) you who died young should have {gotten through / passed} a few days more

Notes:

guzaaraa is really guzaarah , with spelling changed to reflect the rhyme. This is a variant spelling of gu;zaarah , just as guzarnaa (source of guzrii in line one) is a common variant spelling of gu;zarnaa .

 

gu;zaarah : 'A passing, passing over, crossing; a passage; passing of time or of life; living, subsisting'. (Platts p.900)

Nazm:

== Nazm page 66

Bekhud Dihlavi:

He says, The way up to now you spent your portion of life in the happiness and grief of the times, in the same way you should have spent more days in the world. Why did you die in your youthfulness? (115)

FWP:

SETS == OPPOSITES; REPETITION

For general comments on this ghazal, see {66,1}.

There's a word/meaning play between guzarnaa in the first line, and guzaaraa in the second line. In the first line it is the 'time-interval' [muddat] that is the subject, as usual: 'time passes' in Urdu just as it does in English. But in the second line, guzaaraa karnaa is an active, transitive verb: it is something Arif had a duty to do, yet he failed to do it, and Ghalib reproaches him for it. So what was it his duty to do? Literally, to 'pass' more days of life. But colloquially, something like to 'get through' life. The idiomatic uses of guzaarah karnaa have to do with earning a livelihood, managing to live, 'making it' from day to day, 'carrying on', 'getting by'.

The difference in tone is that the first line presents life passively (not in the literally grammatical sense, of course, since guzarnaa is intransitive rather than passive), as something that just happens to you, willy-nilly, with repetitive alternations of happiness and 'non-happiness'. The second line requires you to think of actively accepting your life, 'making it happen'. You ought to do this, for after all, we aren't talking about forever, but only of 'some days more'.

It is this commitment to life, awkward perhaps but tenacious, that Ghalib accuses Arif of not making. Of course, it's an unfair accusation, since there's no reason to believe that Arif didn't want to live. He certainly didn't commit suicide. But the reproaches in this whole ghazal ring so true to the mood of loss and mourning. Since when is deep grief reasonable?