Ghazal 214, Verse 4

{214,4}

rone se ay nadiim malaamat nah kar mujhe
aa;xir kabhii to ((uqdah-e dil vaa kare ko))ii

1) oh friend/confidant, don't blame/reproach me because of weeping

2a) after all, sometime someone would/might open the knot of the heart
2b) after all-- sometime, let someone open the knot of the heart!

Notes:

Nazm:

In this verse se is a translation from Persian; with regard to the idiom of Urdu, this is a place for par . By the 'opening of the knot of the heart' is meant weeping without restraint [dil khol kar ronaa]. (242)

== Nazm page 242

Bekhud Dihlavi:

He says, oh friend, don't stop me from weeping without restraint [dil khol kar ronaa], and don't scold me; if justice is done, then sometime the knot of the heart ought to be opened. (301)

Bekhud Mohani:

Oh companion, if I'm weeping, don't blame/reproach me. (Oh cruel one,) how long would one restrain himself, and die of suffocation? Sometime the contractedness of the lacerated heart would be opened and erased through weeping. (435)

Faruqi:

An early analysis of this verse from 'A Ghazal by Ghalib', in The Secret Mirror, 1981.

FWP:

SETS

What exactly is the relationship among 'weeping', and 'the opening of the knot of the heart', and the lover's condition? Nazm thinks that 'the opening of the knot of the heart' simply means weeping unrestrainedly. Bekhud Mohani thinks that weeping leads to the 'opening of the heart', and that this process erases sorrow. Faruqi points out both that tears form a kind of thread, and that when a knot has been wetted, it contracts and becomes tighter, and is thus harder to open.

The verse makes a clever double use of the imagery of 'to open'. For the common idiom dil khol kar ronaa , to weep without restraint, or literally 'to weep having opened the heart', can't help but come to mind in the context of the verse; the commentators invoke it quite explicitly. Yet neither does the verb kholnaa appear at all in the verse (since it's replaced by vaa karnaa ); nor does the specific vision of opening the heart-- since it's only 'the knot of the heart' that might or might not be opened, and the 'opening' or untying of a knot is a very different image from the 'opening' (like a box? like a book? like a wound?) of the heart. Moreover, thanks to the ambivalence of the i.zaafat , the knot of the heart needn't be the heart itself: it might be a knot created by the heart, or somehow pertaining or belonging to the heart

If we look at the other 'knot' verses, the 'knot' seems either to consist of the absence of the heart (in {8,2}), or almost of the heart itself (in {48,3}); but neither verse gives us any association with weeping. So in an additional reading, the weeping in the present verse might be merely a helpless reaction to an intractable problem: the speaker's plea is, 'after all, I'm desperate-- sometime, somehow, let somebody open the knot of the heart!' Since this hasn't happened, and shows no sign of happening, his friend should be compassionate and shouldn't reproach him for weeping with the pain of his tormented, convoluted, knotted-up heart. Maybe the weeping would even attract the attention of people (like the beloved?) who might help him to open it.